We’ve begun to settle into a routine, with our 2-hour visits each morning and afternoon, with lunch and errands in between and then home for dinner in the apartment each night.
Each visit begins with waking Lily Grace from her crib, in a room of 14 cribs, changing her diaper and feeding her, then playing with her – either on a blanket spread on the floor or bundled up and taken outside for a walk around the grounds of the baby house. Lily Grace has begun to realize that we come as a “package deal” – if one of us is holding her, she is now looking around trying to find the other. Eye contact is coming more easily and frequently, and nothing melts our hearts more than looking into her eyes and seeing a smile break out on her face.
In a few days, we will have our official meeting with the baby house doctor, who will go over all of her medicals, give her assessment and then field our questions. We’ve been impressed with the doctors, nurses and care giving staff at the baby house – they do a lot with a little, and clearly care deeply for the children in their care.
After two weeks of visiting, papers will be filed with the court on our behalf, and we will wait and see what court date will be assessed. It will likely be in late October, followed by a mandatory 15-day waiting period, then a week of processing through the embassy. At this point, the estimate of coming home in late November seems to be on track.
We deeply appreciate all of the prayers and well-wishes that have poured in – it buoys us and reminds us that indeed, we are all one big adopted family.
Steve and Tonya
8 comments:
Hi Steve and Tonya,
I'm enjoying reading these updates! Glad to hear you're settling into a routine. Thanks for sharing this experience with all of us.
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers,
Kendall
Steve and Tonya - I love reading this blog - your joy and happiness comes shining through. I am very happy for you and for this precious girl of yours. My prayers are with you and I can't wait to meet her. susan
Way to go!
Who wouldn't love seeing your faces everyday?
We've rearrange your office, by the way...the shag carpeting is the bomb.
Was thinking about ya'll yesterday...glad to here all is well. Hug all those babies for me!
Ty
I'm glad you are getting settled and hope that Tonya's bag has arrived! You are in my prayers and I am looking forward to seeing pictures of Lily Grace. Love to you all.
Steve and Tonya,
Thanks for keeping us informed. I'm happy for you both and glad to know that everything is going so well. We keep you both, along with Lily Grace, in our thoughts and prayers.
Michael
It's so fun to experience your joy in getting to know your daughter. Jamie had her baby--Dane Spencer--while I was in El Salvador, and we're also having fun getting to know our new family member. Sally introduced both of them to the congregation last Sunday, Dane in person, and Lily Grace by picture. Take care-
Christi
Hey Tonya and Steve! Mom asked me to post a note for you guys since she's not a blogger. XOXO - Jill
Dear Tonya & Steve,
How thrilled and excited I am for you both! I am also excited for us, becoming step great-grandparents of that adorable Lily Grace. I have wanted to correspond with you sooner, but could not get a message to stay when I would post it on your blog. Sorry I lack computer savvy. Jill has generously offered to do this for me. How well I remember the joys of parenthood and know that it will be all the more special for the two of you after waiting so long! Congratulations, love, and prayers. Hugs too, Charlie and Mary Ann.
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